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Link: study: Dating and Cohabitation – It just sort of happens

Cohabitation has increased so rapidly that the data about it haven’t kept pace with the growing numbers, researchers say. The latest U.S. Census for 2008 reported 13.6 million unmarried, heterosexual couples living together. Researchers say 50% to 60% of couples who marry today lived together first; some note that 70% of young adults will cohabit. Most couples who live together either marry or break up within two years. ”People who are engaged think of (living together) as the next step before they get married, but in many couples, it’s part of the dating relationship — pretty serious, but still well shy of the marriage part,” says researcher Scott Stanley, co-director of the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver. Most couples didn’t consciously decide to live together; two-thirds of cohabitors said they either “slid into it” or “talked about it, but then it just sort of happened.” Just one-third talked about it and made a decision to live together. // Related: Stanley’s PPT slides at #smc09 

UNH Study: Rural children more likely living in cohabiting households

The number of children living with cohabiting parents has increased more rapidly than any other family form during the past decade.

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Link: What are the top marriage traps to avoid?

Three marital experts give the top five right and top five wrong reasons to get married. Wrong Reason Number OneSexual attraction may not last forever. Too many people confuse sexual attraction with love and that can lead to a short-lived marriage, explains Michele Weiner Davis, a US therapist and author of The Sex-Starved Marriage and The Sex-Starved Wife. ”The novelty of being with someone will turn on anyone,” she says. When the sexual attraction wanes, if there’s no mutual trust and a joint view of the future, the marriage fades as well. Her advice is clear: sexual attraction between two people is a good thing and energises the marriage. But if the foundation isn’t based on strong communication and shared values, the chances of a long-lasting marriage based solely on animal attraction aren’t good. Wrong Reason Number TwoEscaping the family…(Read more)

Link: via WSJ: Delay of Marriage = Decline Church Attendance?

The most powerful force driving religious participation down is the nation’s recent retreat from marriage, Princeton sociologist Robert Wuthnow notes. Nothing brings women and especially men into the pews like marriage and parenthood, as they seek out the religious, moral and social support provided by a congregation upon starting a family of their own. But because growing numbers of young adults are now postponing or avoiding marriage and childbearing, they are also much less likely to end up in church on any given Sunday. Mr. Wuthnow estimates that America’s houses of worship would have about six million more regularly attending young adults if today’s young men and women started families at the rate they did three decades ago.

Malta: Increased Out of Wedlock Births

The Committee for Social Affairs, together with Dr Angela Abela, has stressed the importance of education to promote healthy relationships. (Read more)

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Link: Fastest-growing kind of U.S. household: Committed Cohabiters

Married couples with children now make up fewer than one in four U.S. households. That’s half the rate of 1960. Married households of any type have been in the minority since 2005. **People are navigating the middle ground between uncommitted hook-ups, and the “institution” of marriage. **Americans are pairing off and staying together just as much as ever, but now it’s without the rings, gowns and expensive photographers. They are America’s committed cohabiters, and theirs is the fastest-growing kind of U.S. household. According to the Census, there are 5.2 million such cohabiting couples, and they are raising 2.2 million children. **And with the financial crisis hitting the downscale the hardest, it may lead to even more cohabitation without marriage, accelerating this microtrend into something bigger.

New data – and new views – on living together

A study published in November by sociologist Daniel Lichter of Cornell University found that the odds of divorce among women who married their sole cohabiting partner were 28 percent lower than those of women who never cohabited.

The majority of Americans now live together before getting married. Of couples married after 1995, 65 percent of men and women in first-time marriages lived together beforehand, according to the 2002 National Survey of Family Growth.

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Contradicts much of the prevailing research in the field. What are your thoughts?

Link: UK: Number of Marriages Hit 111-Year Low in 2006

Iona Institute of Dublin, which works to promote civil society, especially through promoting marriage, reported this week on new figures published by the U.K. Office for National Statistics in its General Household Survey 2007, a poll of almost 13,000 homes across Britain.

Link: Marriage not regarded as ‘best relationship’ by young adults

The annual British Social Attitudes report discovered that fewer than four out of 10 adults aged between 18 and 34 believe that marriage is the best kind of relationship, compared with more than eight out of 10 pensioners. The survey findings came on the heels of another government report that more young Britons will prefer to live together without the benefit of a marriage, which would make wed couples a minority by 2010. Related Link: News Articles

Link: Britain: Is marriage dead?

‘…there are now more women under 50 who have never been married than there are women who’ve tied the knot.’  The group of women aged 18-49 who have never been married has grown from 18 per cent three decades ago to a steady 38 per cent over the last five years for which data is available, according to the General Household Study carried out by the Office of National Statistics. (Read more)